I would like to dedicate this page to my own boyfriend because, in a fabulous coincidence, yesterday was our 1 year anniversary!
I know a lot of you all, my readers, identify as queer. In particular, a lot of you are on the asexual spectrum, and a lot of you identify as gender-variant in some way. Plenty of you, like myself, are both.
To those of you who are looking for life partners of any kind, but don't have one, I know how it can seem like you'll never find someone who can "deal with" or be "okay with" those identities. I used to think this all the time.
But my story and I are here to tell you that it is possible. It really, really is. I know it's hard, and you may not meet these people anytime soon, but it does not mean you will be "alone forever" if you don't want to be. There are some truly wonderful people out there.
And if you don't want a partner? Also fine! You have a big beautiful life of potential ahead of you, all of you! <3